TeaRoses ([info]rosehiptea) wrote in [info]feminist,
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Female Gamers

I realize video games are hardly relevant or interesting to everybody, but I wanted to make a few comments about a panel I attended today at an anime convention about female gamers. (It was listed as being about the male reaction to female gamers, but actually all three panelists were female.)

I commented that I feel like I live in a bubble, because I just started gaming recently and all my friends are are online. I know many women who play video games... and the few male gamers I know honestly don't seem to feel it's exceptional or odd that there are women gamers. But I know that's not universally true, and I wondered how it would happen for women to be more accepted. One woman described being in a video game room at a convention where she was winning at some fighting game, and there were guys gathered around saying "Beat the girl! Beat the girl!" And she also described a woman winning a gaming tournament and earning respect. Which was a little depressing to me because it sounded as if women will be respected as gamers as long as they beat a bunch of men at games, which is not something I personally am likely to be able to do.

I asked if they thought there should be more female main characters in games, and the answers were basically "Yes," "Yes, if they don't dress in skimpy outfits," and "It doesn't matter because I relate to the character anyway." (I personally wish there would be more, just because I do relate to them better, but that's me.)

However I was very put off when a man came in and said "I just want to say I support women gamers," and people were clapping. I imagine he meant well, but I couldn't help wondering why I should be so grateful to a man for being gracious about me being involved with a huge industry that he does not own.

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[info]angelvomit

January 28 2007, 02:08:59 UTC 5 years ago

Men have it in their minds that a female gamer is some magical unicorn. We are so rare and special that we become either 1) someone who must be beat at everything 2) sexy. As soon as school is done and I have the time I plan to wreck a bunch of 'em at Gears of War as my revenge.

What do you play?

[info]angelvomit

January 28 2007, 02:09:50 UTC 5 years ago

I just realized the irony of my GoW statement re: female characters.

[info]rosehiptea

5 years ago

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[info]rosehiptea

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[info]sueg

January 28 2007, 03:40:42 UTC 5 years ago

Well, I think a guy deserves a little credit for being supportive of women in an environment where it's possible for them to be marginalized. A little credit. And that explains while people were clapping, I guess (not necessarily out of "gratefulness" but to express approval of his statement), but I share your discomfort with the idea that "I support women gamers" merits a major announcement and applause. His intention was no doubt to be supportive, but the most effective way for him to do that would be to treat women gamers like other players and not like exotic creatures or hookups. Hopefully, he does that as well. I

Incidentally, I have been to a few gaming conventions (mostly RPG/board game/war game oriented but there's a lot of overlap) and found them to be really welcoming and comfortable environments, despite some annoyances with scantily clad models as promoters or on game packaging. My experiences in the gaming world have been almost universally positive.

[info]rosehiptea

January 28 2007, 05:05:35 UTC 5 years ago

I used to play Dungeons and Dragons decades ago but I knew many girls and women who did and didn't feel very out of place at the one convention I went to. (I had almost forgotten about that; it's been twenty years.)

But it was far more rare for women to play video games then, at least in my experience. Since I've got back into them lately I've had positive experiences also, but unfortunately that's not true for everyone. I've heard of game store clerks assuming that female customers are buying games or systems for their boyfriends and don't know anything about what they are doing. (Which means I'm afraid to admit in a store that I'm clueless, because maybe they'll think it's because I'm a woman and not just because I'm new.)

(And that's very cute icon.)

[info]diala

January 28 2007, 04:26:50 UTC 5 years ago

As someone who plays a variety of video games, including old school games, I am a bit mixed about the issue. In certain sects of gaming, such as RPGs, I see a lot of women participating. However, in other sects, women are hard to find.

For instance, I went to a few Megaman forums for a couple of years. Giving the nature of Megaman, I don't think I was quite surprised to see a lack of women into them. Disappointed, yes, but not surprised. I seemed to be a rare commodity, and I felt as though I had gotten some respect just because I happened to be female. I didn't deserve that respect (note that not all of my respect was just because I was female, but a good chunk of it was), but the men meant well.

I don't think that most men would forbid or frown upon more females joining the hobby. In fact, many would really like it. Unfortunately, there are many factors that are driving away women, including stereotyping not only in society, but in the gaming industry itself. Not only that, but many women are afraid to try new genres in gaming that are "too masculine."

I believe that it is mostly mentalities that have to change. Some games could use a few changes, but mostly it is just the way people perceive the games that causes women to frown on them.

[info]rosehiptea

January 28 2007, 04:59:44 UTC 5 years ago

Not only that, but many women are afraid to try new genres in gaming that are "too masculine."

That's interesting to hear. Most women I know do like survival horror games (though, then again, they often have female main characters... just an aside) and some like war/fighting games as well. In fact some feel reluctant to admit they like other kinds of games because they feel that then they are being a put in a box of liking those kinds of games because they are a woman. (Even though there are at least a few men who play, for example, Harvest Moon.)

I do think there are fewer women into "old school" games. Maybe partially because some of the fans have been playing since the games first came out and there were fewer women gamers then? I'm old enough to have played them but I didn't do so.

[info]rosehiptea

5 years ago

[info]unusualdrug

January 28 2007, 05:09:17 UTC 5 years ago

For women to be more accepted? Oh god, that's a lonnnng list. I have recently become a gamer myself and I'm really into World of Warcraft. I'm going to assume that you know what it is... If you haven't played it before, while the game is good, the sexism is outstanding. Hypersexualized images of women and female characters (doesn't seem to matter whether or not they're human as long as they have nice tits) grace every loading page. The male characters are also constantly portrayed as extremely masculine... and so it's no surprise that while looking at the general chat (which is visible on the screen at all times) the word "gay" as an insult (fag is a close second) pops up every 10 seconds. Yesterday, when I was grouped with 4 other players, 3 of us were female... and yet the male decided to refer to us as "guys" ... after I kindly reminded him that not all of us are guys, he tried to tell me that he was using it as a general term to mean "people." ... What bullshit and androcentrism. I am often referred to as a "he", assumed to be male, asked if I really am a "girl", and treated differently if I say yes. These are problems I run into every day when I play. Also, if you've used vent on there (live voice chat needed for certain activities), you can see what assholes the men are whenever they hear a female voice - and how the women who will speak often seem to have to 'prove' themselves. I think I recall someone telling me once that when she would speak in vent, she would get PMs for cyber and the like... just because they heard a female voice.

I am also really disturbed at how many games do not even provide the option of a female or even gender-neutral character. And like your post pointed out - when the option is available, skimpy, objectifying outfits are bound to come with it...

I remember when I still played into the male-gaze, I used to wish I had gaming skills. Because I knew it was "hott" to be a 'girl gamer'. Of course, like you said, we're not allowed to be very good at it. Just enough so that our boyfriends can brag.

[info]everwatcher

January 28 2007, 05:57:23 UTC 5 years ago

See also: the Succubus, WoW's re-introduction of ancient folklore. She does indeed glance at her nails and slap her butt when left idle for a while, and don't forget to check the list of spoken phrases at the end of that wiki entry. (Related link: a call for a corresponding "Incubus" pet.)

I was pleased to see that WoW doesn't officially treat player characters differently based on the characters' respective sexes; it really is just cosmetic. Of course, the sexist undertones become visible when the characters are "driven" by a community of players with some sexist members.

My latest alt is a female: the female Orc's body size/shape obscures less of the view ahead than does that of the male Orc. (With some of the other races, the difference isn't so drastic, but I just had to try an Orc that last time.)

[info]brodrik

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[info]rosehiptea

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[info]rosehiptea

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[info]lyngen

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[info]lifeisacabaret

January 28 2007, 06:23:10 UTC 5 years ago

I have been a serious gamer since "back in the day" when I had my original Atari system and played D&D, and I am really pleased that the industry seems to be taking female gamers more seriously, but I would like to see more done to ditch some of the garbage like the attitude that female NPCs are scantily clad damsels in distress who will screw you if you rescue them, or matronly, weepy girlfriends/lovers/mothers/sisters who wring their hands that you are "going off on an adventure." I would also like to see more done in online gaming to deal with grotesquely sexist and homophobic language, but hey, dream on.

[info]unusualdrug

January 28 2007, 20:48:54 UTC 5 years ago

The nice thing about wow, at least, and I imagine this might be true for other online games... is that the language is explicity banned by the game rules. So while admins don't pay attention to what's going on, if you see it happen, you can report that character. They will get warned and eventually, if they keep it up, their account will be suspended.

[info]lyngen

January 28 2007, 07:04:20 UTC 5 years ago

I know I'm just playing into the stereotype that women only play rpg's but I was so happy to see that you get total control of how your characters develop in ff12. There's none of that female = white magic and male = melee bs. I know it shouldn't matter whether my character is male, female, or gender neutral but I prefer to play with strong female characters.

Of course.... you do still have to save the princess at one point. Just once... I'd like to save the prince instead.

[info]rosehiptea

January 28 2007, 08:43:51 UTC 5 years ago

I didn't know that about FFXII because I haven't played it yet. But much though I loved Yuna in FFX (for example) I'd love to see a female character get in there with melee weapons, so that's interesting. And I look forward to FFXIII where the main character is apparently female.

I wouldn't mind saving the prince either though.

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[info]lyngen

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[info]silvey

January 28 2007, 11:28:32 UTC 5 years ago

I find it amazing how guys who are normally perfectly nice seem to use gaming as an excuse to be sexist pigs. My male friend who is a heavy gamer and I've had no trouble at all with anywhere else has said to my face that he doesn't believe women can ever be as good at gaming as men. And the annoying thing is I then feel like a failure becasue I personally can't prove him wrong. He is better then me at gaming, but he's been gaming for the better part of his life, I've had my DS for 6 months and it's the only console I've ever owned and I am mostly ignorant.

[info]bleedingcherub

January 28 2007, 12:05:11 UTC 5 years ago

And the annoying thing is I then feel like a failure becasue I personally can't prove him wrong.

YES.

[info]mnschoen

5 years ago

[info]rosehiptea

5 years ago

[info]seph_hazard

January 28 2007, 12:08:23 UTC 5 years ago

I wouldn't describe myself as 'a gamer', but there are two games I play online and one or two I play on the computer offline. I've also played various Playstation and Gameboy games in the past, and I'm on my local pub's pool team.

Of the two games I play online, one of them has plenty of women playing and the other I'm the only woman I've ever seen on, but I've noticed no sexism. They both have an option for a female character, and one of them has no graphics so that's not an issue, and the other has very few and the differences between the male and female cartoons are minimal.

The real problem, actually, comes with the pool team. I'm the only woman in our league, and I've experienced vast amounts of sexism at matches, usually in the form of blokes being incredibly patronising. (It probably doesn't help that my pool cue is one of these, but I like it, bugger off! [grin]).

There is, of course, the fact that (sorry to sound concieted, but) I'm actually very good. A lot of the sexism I've seen is male bravado after I've beaten them, usually something like "she cheated by distracting me, every time she leaned over to take a shot all I could see was her tits/up her skirt".

[info]mnschoen

January 28 2007, 17:44:25 UTC 5 years ago

It's not conceited to say you're good at something if you're good at it. :) Guys can brag all they want, remember. It's manly and impressive. Go on. Be manly and impressive (yes, you must be one to be the other.)

[info]rosehiptea

5 years ago

[info]suchacartoon

January 28 2007, 15:12:35 UTC 5 years ago

I grew up with brothers playing all the games they did, and while some boys I meet who know that I play video games (most games I play are not online) are strangely impressed (like, "wow, a girl is capable of hand-eye coordination!"?) most people either don't really care or it doesn't come up. But I do see the frustration in having to be "accepted" or "supported" in something that is universally accessible. And, yes, I would like to see more strong female leads. We need more than Samus, here, people.

[info]rosehiptea

January 28 2007, 18:06:27 UTC 5 years ago

I can only think of a few games with female leads and they're all in the survival horror genre, so I don't think they were given female leads so women would play them. (Which is not to say women don't play them.)

And FFX-2 which a lot of people complained about because of the women's outfits and the plot.

And occasionally there are games with less developed characterization where you can play as a male or female character. (Pokemon Crystal, for example.)

(I'm sure there are many more, and then there are MMORPGs with lots of choices. But that's all I can think of right now.)

[info]armagh444

January 28 2007, 15:56:37 UTC 5 years ago

I haven't seen things change all that much in the last fifteen years. Back when I first started gaming (I started on tabletop RPGs and video games at around the same time), I was treated like I was some sort of exotic bird, all the more so because I was a girl who was also a female GM who ran something other than White Wolf games. (I did run some Vampire campaigns, but Cyberpunk was always my favorite thing to run.) The fact that I was also outgoing enough to approach and chat up line developers from various companies at cons (back in the day when GenCon was still held exclusively in Milwaukee) made me even more of a exotic, automatically sexy creature, in the eyes of most of the male gamers I knew.

That all fell away when individual gamers got to know me, and I was treated just like everyone else in the gaming groups I was a member of. Outside of that little world, however, things were very different. It's been a long time since I went to a con, but based on the initial responses I've gotten from other male gamers, I doubt it's changed all that much. While I was in my last year of law school, I was chatting with another guy in my year, and the fact that I like video games, RPGs and comic books came up, and his first response was to ask if I had a sister. :::eye roll::: Now, I know he meant well. The person in question is one of the most genuinely nice people I've ever met, and I simply cannot imagine him being intentionally or consciously mean or rude. But his stereotypical view of women as "not interested in gaming" is so ingrained that the notion that we might be struck him with the same "wow" factor that I used to get when I first started going to GenCon. Frustrating, to say the least.

At this point, I have too much on my plate to be active in the gaming community, so I really don't concern myself too much with how I would be treated at a con, but I do wonder how my daughter, who is already an avid gamer, will be received once she gets old enough to want to go to conventions. I really hope that, by then, we'll have made a little more progress in that area.

[info]rosehiptea

January 28 2007, 18:10:44 UTC 5 years ago

My daughter is 13 and getting into games, and I have the same hope for her. Her male cousin is an avid PS2 gamer and as far as I know he thinks it's great that she likes games, so at least there's that.

I think it's a little hard for me being 39 years old. When I try talking about video games to non-gamers my age they look blank or think of Space Invaders. And I'm not sure how gamers react to me because I mostly know them over the internet where I'm not sure they think about my age. In the game store I've only had one person be surprised by me, and he was nice about it.

(That doesn't have to do with sexism, now that I think of it... more of an aside.)

[info]rosehiptea

5 years ago

[info]mnschoen

January 28 2007, 17:42:38 UTC 5 years ago

Well, thank God that panel's attention was turned to the issue of women gamers and back where it belonged, on men (who support female gamers, great heros that they are.)

[info]rosehiptea

January 28 2007, 18:14:34 UTC 5 years ago

To be fair, a lot of the males in the audience were asking the female panelists normal gaming questions, so I guess they also would rather talk about which Zelda game was best than focus on the fact that it's an actual woman playing a video game, which is probably a good thing.

I also have to say that I don't see where the stereotype that all gamers are males who sit in front of their consoles all day and are utterly freaked out by women is doing them any favors either.

[info]mnschoen

5 years ago

[info]sunlit_shadows

January 28 2007, 19:24:36 UTC 5 years ago

hmm, this is an interesting topic for me, because i dabble in gaming, but my mom is really into it (gaming for at least an hour every day). when i mention my mom's gaming, i usually present it as "oh, isn't my mom cool/funky/odd?", which now that i think about it is probably problematic because i know people will see this as a curiosity.

"beat the girl"? what are they, five years old? i am kind of shocked at the level of immaturity it shows that men openly said that- or maybe they see the gaming world as a place where they can openly express sexism because they see it as a men's domain.

women will be respected as gamers as long as they beat a bunch of men at games- that is depressing, because obviously any given set of male gamers have a range of skill levels, and while a guy may be made fun of for not being good at a game, he won't be taken as a representative of the gaming skills of all men. whereas a woman who wasn't good at a particular game (maybe because it was her first time playing it, or she specialized in a different genre?) would be taken as proof that all female gamers are bad at it.

it does suck that women gamers are seen as sexy just for their gaming skills when girl gamers are being objectified because they have this certain characteristic. but maybe this can be seen as a good thing, because perhaps this means some male gamers have interest in a woman because of a shared interest (gasp!) rather than her conformity to beauty standards. i could see things going the other way, and having women who play games seen as "tomboys", unfeminine, or "one of the guys" and thus not seen as sexual beings.

it seems like certain genres are seen as more acceptable for women to play, as well. RPGS or sim games or puzzle games are seen as more feminine (or gender neutral) than fighting games or first person shooters or sports games, for example. games made for women or girls are invariably stuff like "shopping with barbie" or "mary kate and ashley's dress-up adventures" and have pink cartidges.

[info]unusualdrug

January 28 2007, 21:03:03 UTC 5 years ago

...or maybe they see the gaming world as a place where they can openly express sexism because they see it as a men's domain.

Maybe that's why they're so reluctant to let women in and to accept female gamers. They don't want to give up their sexist chat/boy's club.

[info]rosehiptea

5 years ago

[info]lifeisacabaret

January 28 2007, 21:54:09 UTC 5 years ago

I wanted to add that it annoys the hell out of me, the good old self-congratulatory "celebrate the guy who is magnanimous enough to let the ladies into the room" thing. Also, what does he do to support women gamers, other than say that he does? It always seems like it's enough for men to be "man enough" to say that women should be equal... if they say that then they've done all the work that they will ever need to on the issue. It will "get them babes" is sometimes the idea also. Words just aren't enough for me, even if they are for the majority out there.

[info]lifeisacabaret

January 28 2007, 21:55:02 UTC 5 years ago

And yes, the "room" is a public space in the first place.

[info]rosehiptea

5 years ago

[info]pinkdramon

January 28 2007, 23:36:21 UTC 5 years ago

My issue is,
We need more women developers creating video games. We need more women on the teams. For example, if I may cite one source, here, it says that only about 10% of game developers are women. We need more women in marketing, in development, in making the story, in making the music - although to music's credit, I can safely name one female composer off the top of my head, Yuki Kajiura, who wrote the music for Xenosaga 3 among other things.

My take is, if more women developers were involved in the process, there'd be more, different points of view when creating a game. I don't think there's any way to completely eliminate the sexism from character design, but MAYBE we'd see it toned down, and MAYBE we'd finally see some more female leads.

I'm not asking that we make more games aimed specifically at women in the way that's being done now - the Princess Toadstool DS game right now is supposed to be primarily for women, but it sounds like the difficulty level got dumbed down since you can't die proper, and it looks like it plays into a different kind of stereotype. I've been playing games for 18+ years; I know what I'm doing and I can handle a challenge.
My problem with the marketing of this game in particular is that it plays into the socialization/gender roles pretty heavily, since Princess Toadstool (she'll always be Toadstool to me,) actually uses her emotions to progress in the game and it's got a rather "Pink" feel to it. On the one hand the emotion thing is neat because I haven't seen them utilized like that before, but on the other... isn't there some kind of negative stereotype about women being all emotional?

Of course the best example of female leads in a video game that I can think of is from Final Fantasy 6 - and even then there's only 3 playable women. It's being re-released in February in the USA; why isn't everyone playing this game? That, and the Metroid series. OLD school metroid though; I'm not sure I'm digging this new skin-tight suit Samus.

[info]paperclipchains

January 29 2007, 03:45:47 UTC 5 years ago

There are some good female leads.

Shion from Xenosaga the first.
Mint from Threads of Fate.
Cornet from Rhapsody.
Prier from La Pucelle.

... there are definitely more, but I wish someone would compile a list of females that are more than just fanservice.

Yes, I wish more women would get into video games. I've always wanted to get into that industry, but it would be, as my mother always said, "bumping up against the testosterone wall." I'm not sure if I'd make it, especially not if I wanted to be a character designer -- I think my idea of what's appropriate for a female character might conflict with what the marketing department thinks.

[info]pinkdramon

5 years ago

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[info]bestdaywelived

January 29 2007, 00:08:27 UTC 5 years ago

I'm not a "gamer" - I love video games, but I actually despise people that call themselves gamers because I've never had any kind of positive interaction with them IRL. My BIL owns a LAN center, and it's full of misogynist men who don't wear nearly enough deodorant and use the word "fag" as often as you would blink. I play Katamari games, Loco Roco, and other games that don't involve militaristic violence and aren't role playing games. I've heard horrible things about WoW - my fiance is in the room with me now playing EverQuest, which I've been opposed to since that whole thing where the couple starved their baby to death becuase of their gaming habit.

I like Kingdom of Loathing a lot, since there are equal numbers of male and female characters, and since we're all stick figures, there are no scantily clad women FOR A CHANGE.

[info]rosehiptea

January 29 2007, 00:57:52 UTC 5 years ago

I've heard how good Kingdom of Loathing is. I'm going to have to check it out.

[info]paperclipchains

January 29 2007, 03:43:15 UTC 5 years ago

What about the whole "niche" market for gamer girls now?

Yes, there is GAMER GIRL porn. THey advertise it over on thottbot.com, a resource for World of Warcraft players.

Then all the guys who say "I wish I could date a gamer girl." Liking video games makes you a sex object for some reason these days.

I empathize with the women gamers comment. What the hell? I don't need your support to play a video game. If you support me, don't stand up and say it. Stand up and pull the guy who is hitting on me off to the side and explain to him that I am a human being before I punch him in the jaw.
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